Gomolemo’s life after her dark night of the soul
I am delighted to share my story with fellow women, hoping it will inspire someone out there. I am 36 years old and a mother of three handsome boys. Although I am not married, I am currently co-parenting with their father.
I was born and raised in Botswana by a…
My Journey to motherhood and having a child out of ‘wedlock’
I was in my last semester at the university. I was still dating the brightest gentleman in our course, Bachelor of Commerce.
The love was unforgettable, with many road tours and late eating together as we talked about our future, how many kids we would have, and where we would…
My struggles with rejection: Job hunting
I am overwhelmed and frustrated as I navigate the challenging task of finding a job. It’s tough, and I’m starting to doubt myself, but I’m also determined to overcome these difficulties and land a meaningful job.
I’ve put a lot of effort into creating CVs, writing cover letters, and researching…
Dear Diary: I am Finally Embracing Solitude
Dear Diary,
It’s been a while since we had a little chat, and today, I want to pour out my thoughts about this overwhelming feeling of loneliness that’s been following me around. You see, living alone can be a double-edged sword. On one hand, it offers freedom, independence, and the…
I think he is cheating on me with my friend
Today, my heart feels heavy, burdened by a distressing thought that has been lingering in the corners of my mind. It’s a thought I find difficult to accept and yet impossible to ignore—I suspect that my boyfriend may be cheating on me with my close friend. The mere idea…
‘Daddy Issues’ on Father’s day
Father’s Day is a celebration that traditionally honors the role of fathers and their impact on their children’s lives. However, for those who carry unresolved emotions and struggles related to their fathers, this occasion can bring about mixed feelings and intensified emotions all in the name of “daddy issues”
“Daddy…
I believe that Not All Mothers Are Nurturing
Motherhood is often associated with nurturing, love, and care. However, it is important to recognise that not all mothers fit into this idealised image. Just as there are fathers who may struggle with their roles, there are mothers who may not embody the traditional nurturing qualities commonly attributed to…
I struggle with loneliness
I struggle a lot with loneliness. It is a challenging and scary experience, but I always try to remember that I have resources and support available to help me get through my lonely and difficult days. Remembering this has not completely alleviated my loneliness but it has helped me…