Growing up in a family of six individuals, which consisted of my grandmother, father, mother, uncle, sister, and myself, my life embarked on a challenging journey from the very beginning. I remember one fateful year, 1998 to be precise when I was just a Grade 1 learner, my innocence…
When I think about my choice to sign the prenuptial agreement, I feel a wave of different feelings. At the time, it seemed like a smart and sensible choice, a way to protect against an unsure future. But as time has gone on, questions and regrets have started to…
As I stand at this crossroads of custom and modernity, my heart is torn between wanting to respect traditional beliefs and wanting my child’s well-being to come first. My husband and I have had a difficult conversation about circumcision, which shows how hard it is to be a parent…
One of the prevailing subjects of discussion today revolves around relationship breakups. There is an abundance of speeches, motivational talks, and counseling sessions regarding matters of the heart, which is undoubtedly beneficial. Many women express dissatisfaction with men, citing them as sources of conflicts, while men make similar complaints…
My childhood wasn’t as perfect as that of other children, but I have learned to love and accept it. Due to life circumstances, I had to live with my relatives at a very young age. Growing up, observing other children enjoy the love and care of their families, witnessing…
As a pastor’s kid (PK) in a small town, I had to deal with my fair share of problems. I learned early on that my life would always be watched by a tight-knit society that had high standards for the pastor’s family.
I felt like the focus was always on…
I am finally getting a divorce, here are 3 major lessons that I have learned so far about getting a divorce:
Embracing Self-Worth
Throughout the turbulent path to divorce, the first lesson I learned was the vital importance of embracing my self-worth. In the midst of the emotional turmoil, it became…
