Written by: Admin_SheEvo

I can’t help but feel like I don’t quite fit in. It’s not that anything particularly significant happened, but it’s just this nagging sense of not belonging that’s been weighing on my mind. Every day I go about my usual routine, surrounded by people at work, and yet, there’s this persistent feeling of being on the outside looking in. It’s like I’m in a world where everyone else has a secret code or a shared understanding that I haven’t quite cracked.

I tried to engage in conversations, to connect with my work colleagues, but it’s as if there’s an invisible barrier preventing me from truly connecting. Everyone seems to effortlessly blend in, while I stand out like a sore thumb. This sometimes makes me feel unwanted.

I know deep down that this feeling is a common human experience, that many people grapple with it at some point in their lives. But that knowledge doesn’t make it any less lonely or frustrating. I wonder if it’s just a phase, a passing feeling, or if it’s something I need to address more seriously.

For now, I’ll try to remind myself that it’s okay not to fit in all the time. Maybe it’s an opportunity to learn more about myself, discover more about who I am and where I truly belong. And I hope I can soon learn to accept that I actually do belong even when I feels like I do not.


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    October 2, 2023

    I can relate. Everywhere I go, despite of all that I have achieved, I always feel like an imposter.

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    November 9, 2023

    Thank you so much for sharing this. I can totally relate. I hope the days get better for you!



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