Written by: Admin_SheEvo
My name is Christian Mwandingi. I’m from Namibia and a single mother of 4 sons.
This is my love story of going through rejection by all four fathers of my 4 children when each one of them abandoned me the day he found out that I was pregnant.
My family and friends also misunderstood me and gave up on me, mocking me, gossiping about me and calling me names. It was very hard for me to take care of my kids alone from the 1st one to the 4rth one without their fathers or family support, and I was not working.
Seeing all my four children growing up without knowing their father’s love and even their faces was excruciating.
Many people would wonder why I never learnt my lesson from the first pregnancy, but life has its way of rolling out, and with blind sight, you might delay seeing a pattern.
I cried every day from my 1st pregnancy until the fourth. I have tried so hard to keep the relationship with the fathers of my kids, but things always end up the way I don’t want them to be.
History kept repeating itself until my last child, when I decided to go to church for delivery, and thanks to God, things are getting better.