Written by: Admin_SheEvo
Most of us are in cocoons that only we as individuals are aware of. Pits that we fear the worst and would rather bury it in our hearts than speak it out. In our minds, we fear what people will perceive of us. Sometimes, we feel alone and have no support system to help us sail through.
In other situations, guilt creeps within us, rendering us helpless to save the situation. Motherhood is a good example. As a young mom, one navigates how to tender to your baby and hopes your actions are correct. It is a clueless journey in which you tell yourself you will figure it out when you get there. It’s not easy to have expectations set with unrealistic ways to meet them.
Looking back then and now, things are tougher than you could have ever imagined. Challenges are there, but they are twice as hard. It’s more of taking one day at a time and handling them as they are. As human beings, we should aim to listen and not judge. Seek to hear someone out and aim
to help where you can. Sometimes, it can be pretty hard and look like a `nuisance’, but try to at least.
The thought of an individual venting out something to you means they fully trust you. Don’t take that for granted. Another thing is don’t judge an individual; choose to look and ignore. You don’t know what that particular individual is going through.
In this new age of the internet, a lot is happening on various social media platforms. When you see something that is irking you, choose not to judge and think twice about the comment you will make.
We aren’t perfect. Each of us has flaws, but if we work on our flaws, we will grow exponentially. Growth comes from within, and it’s a personal initiative. Let’s propose building a world with less judgment and more positive vibes for improvement.
By: Annette
