Written by: Admin_SheEvo
Accepting and believing that you are enough, beautiful, healthy, smart, and capable is not as easy as it may seem, especially when external forces or societal pressures convince you otherwise. I started questioning what a perfect body image is and who gets to decide that notion. Of course, the answers to these questions will vary based on individual perceptions and can be debated. When I asked some of my friends for their thoughts on the same question, I was intrigued by the responses from two individuals: a 23-year-old female and a 25-year-old male.
The female mentioned that being slim did not align with her idea of a perfect body image. When she was slim, people often commented on her weight, making her feel insecure. Initially, she disliked her body, but over time, she worked on embracing and loving it, which improved her confidence. The male friend expressed that a perfect body image enhances self-confidence, self-esteem, and overall well-being.
Research suggests that body image insecurities are more prevalent among women, particularly the youth, compared to men. Although men also face pressure to have a certain physique or to date women who fit a particular ideal body shape, women tend to experience higher levels of body image dissatisfaction. Many women’s responses about body image revolve around more than just their external appearance or comparisons with others. The concept of body image is complex, encompassing one’s individual perception, beliefs, and emotions about their body. Some women may feel negative emotions, believing they are overweight when they are not, often influenced by cultural and social norms as well as media portrayal.
The belief that thinness equates to beauty has led many young women to experience depression, anxiety, and eating disorders such as anorexia and bulimia nervosa. Negative body image is not a new issue, but the rise of social media has exacerbated its impact, making it easy for one to be swayed away by the social trends. It is important to recognize your uniqueness and purpose, and to understand that you have the power to choose what to focus on and believe, as well as how to respond to criticism. What you frequently focus on, believe, and internalize can shape your reality.
If you are considering changes for someone else rather than for personal growth, it may be beneficial to step back and engage in self-reflection. True beauty is rooted in confidence and emanates from within, transcending various forms, shapes, and shades. Embrace it.
Neo
So true. Thank you for sharing this
Sinazo
This is so true and relatable. I hope we could all be considerate and not do around body shaming our sisters