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Phindile Le Bris Sithole-Spong

Signing a pre or postnuptial contract does not show a lack of faith in your marriage, but rather good asset management and preparation

It was probably not until I heard it on Kanye West’s hit song “Gold digger” did I first know about prenups. And whilst I and every other millennial hip hop fan of that time screamed “we want prenup, we want prenup”, it took a good few years for me…

Why letting go of the lessons I was taught as a young women has freed me to be more myself

Growing up in an African household. I was taught how to behave in a manner that always saw partner, child, family and community obligation before self. It is no surprise then that when it came to working and raising a family of my own later on in life, I…